Hey mama, If your heart races the moment your toddler wakes up, if you lie awake at night worrying about their future, health, school fees, or whether you’re doing enough, I want you to know something important: you are not failing. You are not “too sensitive.” You are a mother in today’s world, and mom … Read more
Hey mama, If you’re reading this while hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace, sipping cold coffee, or mentally scheduling the meal for the week – I see you. Motherhood is beautiful, chaotic, rewarding, and sometimes soul-crushing all in the same hour. For the longest time, I thought happy moms were either … Read more
Hey mama (or papa), Let’s have a real conversation. You love your child more than life itself. You want the absolute best for them. You’d move mountains, fight dragons, and lose sleep just to see them smile. You’re literally acting out the lyrics of a popular Nigerian music “running to you.” But somewhere along … Read more
The first few months after giving birth are a whirlwind. You’re sleep-deprived, your body feels foreign, and your entire world now revolves around this tiny human who needs you 24/7. In the middle of all that chaos, it’s easy for your relationship with your partner to take a backseat. One day, you look at each … Read more
As parents, one of the greatest gifts we can give our children is covering them in prayer with the living Word of God. Declaring Scripture over them builds their faith, invites God’s protection, wisdom, and blessings into their lives, and reminds us of His promises. Whether you speak these verses during family devotions, … Read more
Motherhood is the hardest job nobody can ever fully prepare you for. One minute you’re glowing with pregnancy hormones and Pinterest boards of perfect nurseries, the next you’re crying in the bathroom because your toddler just threw spaghetti at the wall and you screamed at them. If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “I’m a … Read more
Hello momma, If you’re reading this while feeling that familiar knot in your stomach – the one that says you’re somehow not doing enough – then this one’s for you.I’m right there with you. Mom guilt has been one of the hardest parts of motherhood for me. It shows up quietly sometimes. Like when … Read more
Hi friends, If one had told me five years ago that I would be a mother of “twin” boys, I would have shrugged it off, especially when there has not been any record of twins in my lineage. I gave birth to my first son five years ago. I resumed my monthly flow just two … Read more
Some days, I look at the clock and wonder how it’s already 3 PM when I feel like I’ve barely started. Between Zoom meetings, Google Meets, Slack huddles, chasing after my energetic boys (a curious 3-year-old and his adventurous 4-year-old brother), wiping spills, answering “Mama, look!” every five minutes, and trying to actually get … Read more
There is a general saying in this part of the world (Africa) that: “It takes one person to birth a child, but it takes the whole village to nurture him. “ If you grew up in this part of the world, you will understand that unsolicited advice is the tax we pay for having people … Read more